Abbey’s Policy on Protection and Safeguarding of Minors and Vulnerable Adults
The monks of Holy Cross Abbey are vowed to a celibate way of life and mutual respect among persons. The monastic community views abuse including sexual abuse or sexual exploitation by its members to be morally reprehensible.
All monks of Holy Cross Abbey have been vetted and have undergone safeguarding training. Safeguarding training will be kept up to date to maintain a vigilant awareness alive within the community in regard to safeguarding issues.
In accordance with the gospel and the principles of their Rule of life, the Benedictine Monks of Holy Cross Abbey, Rostrevor, strive to welcome all who come to this place as they would welcome Christ Himself. They seek to ensure that each person who is received as a guest or visitor to the abbey is shown reverence and offered respect.
The community is fully committed to the Churches revised Safeguarding policy A Safe and Welcoming Church– Safeguarding Policy and Standards for the Catholic Church in Ireland 2024 and is signed up to and follows the safeguarding procedures in place in the Diocese of Dromore.
Any worries or concerns regarding the safeguarding of children or well-being of vulnerable adults encountered at Holy Cross Abbey should be reported immediately to the Abbot and to the Dromore Designated Person who oversees the Community’s safeguarding practice:
Stephen Sherry
Diocesan Office,
Bishop’s House,
Armagh Road,
Newry, Co. Down BT35 6PN
Tel: 07301246329
Email: safeguardingdirector@dromorediocese.org
When considering abuse, sexual abuse or sexual exploitation, the Abbey maintains a primary concern for the victim’s safety and well-being. Recognising that abuse, sexual abuse or sexual exploitation has tragic consequences for those who have been abused, Holy Cross Abbey adopts the following procedures which is binding on all and will be reviewed by the Abbot’s Council annually. These procedures are augmented by Safeguarding Children: Standards and Guidance Document for the Catholic Church in Ireland, wherever necessary:
I. An Allegation
II. Pastoral Response to the Complainant
III. Intervention with the Accused
IV. Public Statement
It may be appropriate for the Abbot to issue a short statement.
V. Definitions
Abbot: the Abbot is the chief administrator and spiritual father of Holy Cross Abbey.
Abuse: As defined in Resource 10 Standards and Guidance. Similarly any form of sexual exploitation of a vulnerable adult or another person shall be deemed to constitute a serious matter, whether initiated by the accused or not:
Physical Abuse
Physical abuse is any form of non-accidental injury or injury which results from the wilful or neglectful failure to protect a child.
Emotional Abuse
Emotional abuse is the persistent emotional ill-treatment of a child such as to cause severe and persistent adverse effects on the child’s emotional development. It is normally to be found in the relationship between an adult and a child rather than a specific event or pattern of events. It occurs when a child’s need for affection, approval, consistency and security are not met. Unless other forms of abuse are present, it is rarely manifested in terms of physical signs or symptoms. The threshold of significant harm is reached when abusive interactions dominate and become typical of the relationship between the child and the parent carer.
Sexual Abuse
Sexual abuse occurs when a child is used by another person for his or her gratification or sexual arousal or for that of others.
Neglect
Neglect can be defined in terms of an omission, where the child suffers significant harm or impairment of development by being deprived of food, clothing, warmth, hygiene, intellectual stimulation, supervision and safety, attachment to and affection from adults and medical care. The threshold of significant harm is reached when the child’s needs are neglected to the extent that his or her wellbeing and/or development are severely affected.
Allegation
A complaint or accusation made by a victim to the Abbot or a credible report made to the Abbot by another person because the victim is prevented for a serious reason from speaking directly with the Abbot.
Victim
A victim shall be deemed to be any minor, or vulnerable adult.